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the giver

“I was always ashamed to take, so I gave.
It was not a virtue.
It was a disguise.”

Anaïs Nin

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remind you of anyone?

“It’s a systematic marginalizing of populations, Glinda, that’s what the Wizard’s all about.”

Elphaba, Wicked

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survival

“The big question is, can you survive?”

“I think so.

I have to.

I’m trying.”

—Bridget Jones: Mad About the Boy

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forgetting

“Let us forget, with generosity, those who cannot love us.”

—Pablo Neruda

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beauty ≠ morality

“By framing beauty as a moral achievement rather than what it often is—a combination of genetics, resources and medical intervention—we create an impossible standard. Women are expected to meet increasingly demanding beauty standards while maintaining the fiction that their appearance is entirely ‘natural’. The pressure to be beautiful becomes entangled with the pressure to be ‘good’.”

Ellen Atlanta, “Why Are Celebrities So Keen to Deny Cosmetic Work?” in Dazed

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2025

“I cannot bring myself to wish anyone a happy anything as we live through a livestreamed genocide, so I will wish you safety and comfort, and the power to change this fucked up world.”

Ameya, “Fat. So?” podcast

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Lindy West on weight loss

“I don’t think you can pursue deliberate weight loss without endorsing [a] body hierarchy. If you think you look better when you’re thinner, that means you think thin people are better than fat people. And they’re not.”

Lindy West, on the podcast “Weight For It

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enough

“Enough is so vast a sweetness, I suppose it never occurs, only pathetic counterfeits.”

Emily Dickinson

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Rick Owens on beauty and intolerance

“My personal effort has been to oppose intolerance in any way that I can by proposing aesthetics that are not the accepted standards or not the enforced standards. I talk about airport beauty: we’re forced to march through this gauntlet of beauty—the beauty ads, the beauty goods, perfume things—that is exactly the same globally…and it’s narrow, and it can be a little bit cruel…I want to offer something that is not exactly that…

“I want to balance out intolerance by promoting alternatives to what are the standards of beauty. When you can blur the standards of beauty, you can open up minds to think of other things, too.”

Rick Owens

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restlessness

“I was restless, I needed something to engage me, and art was that something.”

Louise Nevelson
from Louise Nevelson by Arnold Glimcher

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Louise Nevelson on raisins

“When I put a raisin in my mouth, I know what I'm doing.”

Louise Nevelson, on eating them one at a time instead of in handfuls

from Dawns + Dusks: Taped Conversations With Diana MacKown

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Rick Owens on cake

“I have plenty of addictions. I mean, I smoke, I drink coffee, I have to have a certain amount of cake a day. So I have my addictions, and I’ve learned to accept them.”

Rick Owens, when asked about his sobriety

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mystery

"Eroticism requires separateness…[Our partner’s] separateness is unassailable, and their mystery is forever ungraspable."

—Esther Perel, Mating in Captivity

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bravery

"The truly brave soul is tremblingly alive to the feelings of humanity."

Charlotte Temple by Susanna Rowson

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quote of the day

“Listen, I’m a pretty good judge of people. If I wasn’t, I couldn’t sell extension cords.”

—extension cord salesman, Monk, S1E13

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weirdos

“Don’t make it weird.”

“I don’t know how not to.”

Will Trent

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autism

“I’ve been performing who I thought I should be my entire life.”

Quinni, Heartbreak High season 2

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